My goal is to raise a patriot. I want our daughter to have a great love for her country. I want her to understand our history and be part of its budding future. I want her to feel empowered to ask questions and be a champion of change. I want her to respect those who have dedicated their lives to bettering the world in which we live. I want her to be a civic leader engaged in her community. This does not mean her love for this country should be unrestricted or that she should trust blindly, but I simply want her to be a proud citizen and kind to others.
When I think of what it means to be a patriot, I think of words such as revolutionary, service, passion, valor, and perseverance. These are textbook, Parenting 101 qualities we probably all aspire to instill in our children. A patriot loves their country and believes in its ability to endure and flourish.
So, what is it going to take to raise a patriot? Well, I have a few thoughts to guide my own efforts.
Sing it, say it, and display it:
The National Anthem, our Pledge of Allegiance, and the American flag are symbols of our country. They are as much about our past as they are about our future. My job as a parent is to make sure Ella displays proper etiquette and respect for these symbols. For example, I must demonstrate of what to do when the National Anthem is sung by removing my hat, placing my hand over my heart, facing the American flag and singing the song. We will also take the time to discuss the meaning of the Pledge of Allegiance as the words may be complex for a young child to understand. It is imperative that I take the time to explain abstract concepts such as liberty and justice and discuss the meaning of allegiance, republic, and indivisible. Finally, I will teach Ella about the American flag. Our flag is recognized around the world. It should be respected, not only for those who fight wearing our stars and stripes, but because it also represents her as an American. We are united under one flag, and though we may disagree, the American flag symbolizes progress over retreat, hope over fear, and collaboration over chaos.
Learn our history:
History can provide a glimpse into the future revealing where change is required. We learn about and from each other. Our country’s history is not without blemishes, but to raise a patriot, an understanding of our history is essential. It’s unfortunate to write that discrimination still happens and inequalities exist, but a patriot is prepared to be part of the solution and not contribute to the problem. Through history, we gain appreciation for those who have paved the way to establish a country that is worth the investment of our greatest asset, our children. I am excited to join Ella as she discovers what makes America beautiful.
Respect those who serve:
We all want our children to be kind and respectful, and this is especially true towards those who serve our country. The task they have is great; their sacrifices are even greater. I may not always agree with the individual, but I can demonstrate respect for one’s office and views.
Experience the American culture:
Our culture is not only diverse, but invigorating and innovative. Exploring what makes us special is a fun adventure for a child. Our family can read, travel, volunteer, or strike up a simple conversation and in the process Ella will learn about our fascinating culture and add to her understanding of the world. (Getting out and experiencing this ‘world’ might mean just going around the corner…it does not have to be expensive or far away.)
Celebrate!
This one is my favorite and the easiest to do. Holidays, or a random Tuesday, our family can take the time to celebrate and be thankful for what makes life good.
Much like ourselves, our country is not perfect and my goal is to raise a proud patriot to who is determined to make the world better.
You are such a great role model. Hats off to you.